City Bakery’s Hot Chocolate Festival

Chocolate lovers should jump for joy, unite in masses and head to the City Bakery in Union Square during February.

Why? For the City Bakery’s annual Hot Chocolate Festival.

Hot chocolate is a fickle drink that acts like it’s always going through the “terrible twos.” It can be thick and syrupy or watery with lots of marshmallows or mixed with chili peppers because it wanted to see if it tasted good (Answer: it does!)

And for those who can’t get enough of it, the City Bakery started a festival where for each day in February they have a new flavor of hot chocolate. Sweet deal, no?

Try flavors like Moulin Rouge, Earl Grey, Arabian Nights or my favorite Ode to the Polar Bear.

via Time Out New York

Hot Chocolate Festival
City Bakery
3 West 18th Street
New York, NY 10011

“On Stage in Fashion” Exhibit at NYPL Ends Tomorrow!

Who knew a library could be more than just books. “On Stage in Fashion” is an exhibit at the New York Public Library for the Performing Arts, Dorothy and Lewis B. Cullman Center, Donald and Mary Oenslager Gallery.

The exhibit showcases the ever-graying lines between fashion and art. Featuring the dirndl worn by Mary Martin in the “Sound of Music” to Renee Fleming’s costume from “Thaïs.” See designs by Christian LaCroix, Chanel, Lanvin, Bill Blass, and more.

Be inspired by your favorite designers and go to the library! Not convinced? Check out what the NYTimes has to say about the exhibit. Your last chance to see “On Stage” is Saturday at 6PM before these exquisite pieces of fashion history are back in the vault.

While you’re uptown, I recommend taking a trip to the opera or just bask in the scenery of Lincoln Center. Or head to Time Warner Center for some macarons at Bouchon Bakery.

“On Stage in Fashion”
New York Public Library for the Performing Arts
Dorothy and Lewis B. Cullman Center
40 Lincoln Center Plaza
New York, NY 10023-7498

Lolita Therapy: Tackling the Frill Monster in the Closet Part 1

Anna Sui’s Closet – Elle Decor

Apartment Therapy is one of my favorite websites. It not only provides helpful resources to find furniture and other home tutorials, but also provides pictures of other apartments to help you get organized in the right way.

I find this especially helpful in Lolita fashion. As such I’m going to start a series called “Lolita Therapy” to discuss such topics like how to slim down the wardrobe, store your petticoats and hats, accenting your kitchen, and just plain keeping neat. The posts won’t try to turn you into a neat freak, but more keep your Lolita side organized and in check.

As you’ve started your Lolita wardrobe, I’m sure you’ve realized that one closet won’t simple do. Your bedroom is already brimming with skirts, dresses, petticoats, and shoes, but it’s still growing. It’s probably to the point where you just have masses of skirts in piles on top of chairs because you’re not sure where to put it all. (Note: This is even harder when you live in NYC and you have only one closet to share with your significant other or roommate.)

What you’ve got yourself is a frill monster – a collection of Lolita clothes that has no where to go but everywhere. (Keep in mind this happens with small wardrobes too!)

It’s best to keep your Lolita closet seperate from your regular closet. This prevents unfortunate mishaps like pulling out AP’s Cherry Berry Bunny JSK when all you wanted was that cute chick yellow blouse you’ve been meaning to wear.

However this doesn’t mean you literally should have two different closets: one for Lolita, one for regular clothes (If you do, I’m super jealous.) More like have a mental library of what’s Lolita, what’s regular clothes, and what’s both. With a mental catalog you can balance out your closets so one does not overtake the other. The world is simply not ready for an entire wardrobe of Lolita clothes, unless you are Maki and Asuka. This will allow your Lolita wardrobe to grow at a normal place than exploding.

One way to seperate your clothes is by color-coding your hangers (e.g. pink or white for Lolita, black or another color for regular clothes). I find using ultra-thin hangers are the best way to go. They not only slim down your closet, but also can give you an idea on how much room you have for future clothes. You can find them at any department store like Target or Kmart, but I prefer The Container Store.

If you must have a separate wardrobe, aim for an armoire (more expensive route) or a portable storage closet(less expensive). Reserve jumperskirts, OPs, and blouses to be hung up. Skirts, pants, socks, and anything knit can be easily stored in totes — when you need them all you have to do is fluff it out. The storage totes at The Container Store come in an array of colors and prints. For a more classic look, scour vintage shops and vintage flea markets for trunks.

Housingworks is a thrift shop I like to go to for furniture browsing and designer shoes. The great thing about Housingworks is that all purchases go towards helping people who are living with HIV/AIDs. When it comes to thrifting you have to be sure to inspect every nook and cranny to find any flaws that you may or may not want to deal with.

It’s best to start inside your closet first and use every space from top to bottom. Perhaps shoe racks at the bottom. Stackable drawers for socks and pants. (Note: wherever you keep your socks you should have dividers or separaters. They not only keep your socks neat, but make it easy to find both pairs together!) Top shelving for any clothes you aren’t wearing that season, and middle shelving for anything in between.

One last thing I recommend is not neccessarily cleaning out your closet, but reorganizing it every few months. Sadly this means taking everything out and putting it back in a more organized fashion. Though I’m sure a lot of Lolitas do this as they find items they’ve never worn or simple have outgrown or was never there style.

Sounds common sense enough, but when it comes does to actually organizing your Lolita closet it can be overwhelming. I hope this helps when you realize your frill monster is out of control. Are there any particular ways that you try to organize your growing closet?

The Container Store – Locations
(58th and Lexington)
725 Lexington Avenue
New York, NY 10022

(Sixth Avenue)
629 Sixth Avenue
New York, NY 10011

Housingworks – Locations
(Brooklyn)
122 Montague Street
Brooklyn, New York 11201
718-237-0521

(Chelsea)
143 West 17th St.
New York, NY 10011
718-838-5050

(Gramercy)
157 East 23rd St.
New York, NY 10010
212-529-5955

(Hell’s Kitchen)
730-732 9th Avenue
New York, NY 10019
646-963-2665

(Soho)
130 Crosby Street
New York, NY 10012
646-786-1200

(Tribeca)
119 Chambers St.
New York, NY 10007
212-732-0584

(Upper East Side)
202 East 77th St.
New York, NY 10021
212-772-8461

(Upper West Side)
306 Columbus Ave.
New York, NY 10023
212-579-7566

(West Village)
245 West 10th St.
New York, NY 10014
212-352-1618

(Yorkville)
1730 2nd Ave.
New York, NY 10128
212-722-8306

Crumbs Cupcake of the Week – Strawberry Graham

Crumbs’ Cupcake of the Week this week is so delicious that it has no name. As such I dub thee “Strawberry Graham.” A vanilla cupcake filled with strawberry preserves, vanilla frosting rimmed with graham crackers.

Grab this cupcake as a perfect start to your week.

Note: I suggest wearing country style Lolita while eating this delectably simple cupcake!)

Locations:
(Brooklyn Heights)
109 Montague Street
Brooklyn Heights, NY 11201
T 718-935-9600
(Garment Center)
1385 Broadway
New York, NY 10018
T 212-764-7100
(Grand Central)
420 Lexington Avenue
New York, NY 10170
T 212-297-0500
(Broadway)
1675 Broadway
New York, NY 10019
T 212-399-3100
(Bryant Park)
43 West 42nd St
New York, NY 10036
T 212 221 1500
(Lexington Avenue)
1418 Lexington Ave
New York, NY 10128
T 212 360 7200
(Madison Avenue)
501 Madison Ave
New York, NY 10022
T 212 750 0515
(The Village)
37 East 8th St
New York, NY 10003
T 212 673 1500
(Third Ave)
880 Third Ave
New York, NY 10022
T 212-355-6500
(Union Square)
124 University Place
New York, NY 10003
T 212 206 8011
(Upper East Side)
1379 Third Ave
New York, NY 10075
T 212 794 9800
(Upper West Side)
350 Amsterdam Ave
New York, NY 10024
(Wall Street)
87 Beaver St
New York, NY 10005
T 212 480 7500
(East Hampton, Long Island)
35 Newtown Ln
East Hampton, NY 11937
T 631 329 4883
(Huntington, Long Island)
11 Wall St
Huntington, NY 11743
T 631 421 4500
(Woodbury, Long Island)
8285 Jericho Turnpike
Woodbury, NY 11797
T 516-224-4542
T 212 712 9800

Window Shopping for the Old-Fashioned: Winter Antiques Show at the Armory

Chinoiserie tea set (at the Met)

Take your vintage shopping to a new level and make your way to the Park Avenue Armory for the 57th annual Winter Antiques Show.

The Winter Antiques Show is held as a benefit auction for the East Side House Settlement. Featuring over 75 exhibitors who specialize in Americana, English, European, and Asian fine and decorative arts.

Experience your own version of Antiques Road Show or go for feeling of being fancy and find a new inspiration for your apartment or dorm room.

Or add to that Grimoire-esque living room that will make your dolly-kei den complete.


Winter Antiques Show
January 21st – 30th
Park Avenue Armory
337 Alexander Avenue
New York, NY 10454

Hours of Operation:
Monday, Wednesday, Friday, Saturday
12-8PM

Tuesday, Thursday, Sunday
12-6PM

Admission: $20 (includes catalogue)

Fall Gracefully: Tips for the Casual Ice Skater + Where to Skate

There are times where I wish I could ice skate like Michelle Trachtenberg in Ice Princess. If you haven’t seen it, it’s about a nerdy girl who uses simple physics and learns how to ice skate like a pro. (I recommend it if you’re looking for B-movie goodness.) While we can’t all skate like Michelle Kwan, we can learn how to fall.

If you have ever taken lessons or even tried for the first time, you know you’re going to fall (at least once).

I still love ice skating.  When I first moved to New York and found out that Bryant Park had an ice rink, it was like longing to relive a childhood memory. I took lessons in middle school, but never kept it up. Surprisingly it’s like riding a bike. Even in Lolita.

If your a Lolita who loves to ice skate or always wanted to try, here’s some advice:


Wear gloves. Gloves are warm, the ice is not. Glove can provide some protection against the ice if you do fall or if you hand gets cut against someone else’s blade. Preferably anything that looks cute like Meta’s Princess Gloves.

Petticoats are your friend. While it’s not always advantageous to wear petticoats a lot of the time, that cumbersome volume does ease your fall. It’s not good as knee or elbow pads or even a butt pad, but it will create distant between the hard ice and tender skin.

If you know you’re going to fall, try to fall on your butt. Compared to any other angle to fall, this is the safest. This does not mean you should fall all the way back (I’ve seen this happen). Avoid areas to fall like your head, face, joints as these are very fragile area.

Ice skating is a dangerous sport. You can get hurt. If you don’t realize this then you shouldn’t be ice skating. Like the old saying goes – it’s all fun and games until someone gets hurt. Now if you are aware of this and are still ready to tackle the ice, we’ll move onto the fun stuff.

Imagine you are a little bird learning to fly. This is a metaphor I use whenever I help people who’ve never set there foot on the ice. A) Because a little bird is afraid and extremely cautious. B) A little bird learns to take flight a step at a time.

Push off one foot at a time. This will give you momentum on the ice and will keep you moving. When you first step on the ice use the railing to push yourself away and move one foot away from heel to toe, so the other is used for balance. Note: Don’t concentrate on moving your feet this way, but concentrate more on how just making sure you keep skating.

Bend your knees and spread your wings.  Unlike jogging where your are allowed to swing your arms, when you’re ice skating this is not the greatest thing to do. Basically your arms are going to help keep you balance. Bending your knees will help you push off a little better.

Perfect fit. A perfectly fitting skate should be tight, as in your foot should not be able to move inside the boot. Old school ice skates sizes were often smaller than your actual shoe size. However when trying skates one, try one or a half size smaller. Note: You shouldn’t cram your foot into the boot. It should be a perfect fit, like Cinderella’s glass slipper.

Onto the Don’ts

Avoid rentals. In my opinion, rentals are the Devil. As you’re not sure what will fit right. Ice skates are pretty cheap nowadays so it’s easy to buy your own. However don’t buy too cheaply, as they may fall apart while you’re on the ice. Aim for ones that cost $30 – $50

Don’t buy and skate. I go to Bryant Park to skate and I see tons of adults and teens buy skates and then go on the ice. This is dangerous as the blades are not as sharp as you think and you will not be able to skate properly. Rinks will have sharpening services on the premises, so get them sharpened first. I tend go to Westside Skate & Stick.

(I like this place because they’ll ask you a lot of questions to know how sharp the blade should be. How often you skate, are you casual or pro, even where you normally skate.)

Don’t be a jerk. This mainly applies to people who like to skate like they’re playing hockey, but applies to everyone who’s on the ice. Chopping up the ice looks cool, it’s not really safe for the other people who’ve never skated before or even people who are just skating for fun. The same goes for weaving in and out, and going at break-neck speeds. You are creating more accidents.

If you want to skate like a hockey player, join a team.

You’re not the only one on the ice. Be aware there are other people on the ice, and, more often than not, they don’t know how to ice skate. Leave a personal bubble between you and others.

Avoid the railing. The railing looks nice. It will be there if you fall, and you can pull yourself around the rink without falling. Using the railing as a security blanket is not the best way to ice skate. You have to learn to let go. If you must, try to skate a little away from the railing until you get comfortable skating on your own.

Walking gets you nowhere. Just because you have ice skates doesn’t mean you can walk on ice. Ice has no friction, and trying to walk on ice with sharp blades on your feet won’t help you move (actually it makes you look quite silly). You have to realize you need to glide. It’s called ice skating, not ice walking.

I hope this will help you wherever you choose to go and skate. Ice skating is really great once you know your way around the ice. Here are some places in the city you can go to:

The Pond at Bryant Park – This ice rink is not only in Midtown, but it has free admission. This means all you have to pay is for the skates – and if you have your own all you got to do is walk right in.

Wollman Rink – For some shopping or dropping the kids off somewhere, Wollman is a good central place where you can skate at your leisure.

Trump Lasker Rink – If you mostly hang around uptown near Harlem then this is the most convenient rink to go to. Two hockey-sized outdoor arenas for skating convenience

WWII Veterans Memorial Ice Skating Rink – Don’t want to travel all the way to the city? Staten Island has it’s own rink.

Rockefellar Ice Rink – Everyone’s heard of the famous Rockefellar Ice Rink. Not sure what else I could say that you haven’t heard. However if you want to ice skate at Rockefellar I suggest going after February when admission is cheaper ($14).

W Hotel – It’s small but free (if you own skates). Located on the fifth floor of the W Hotel. Note: It’s only open until February 15th, so grab your skates and head downtown.

Can’t get enough of skating? There are also some indoor rinks around the city to go to when the weather is warmer.

Chelsea Piers Sky Rink – Chelsea Piers is quite a long walk from the hustle and bustle of the city, but it makes up for it by having an entire sports center with a view of the river.

World Ice Arena – You may have to travel all the way to Flushing Meadows Corona Park, but you’ll be able to skate all year round.

Kate Wollman Rink – Sadly there was no outdoor ice skating for Brooklyn this year. However never fear because Parks and Recreations is building a whole new rink to use all year round!

Crumbs Cupcake of the Week – Banana Split

Shockingly there exists something better than ice cream. And that is a Crumbs’ Banana Split cupcake. 
A vanilla cupcake filled with vanilla buttercream, and frosted with Crumbs signature cream cheese frosting.  It even has chocolate drizzle and a cherry on top! 
If I wasn’t on a cupcake diet, I would go out and buy one.  So please, someone tell me how delicious it is?
Check out more great deals on Crumbs’ Twitter for more news and deals.

Locations:
(Brooklyn Heights)
109 Montague Street
Brooklyn Heights, NY 11201
T 718-935-9600
(Garment Center)
1385 Broadway
New York, NY 10018
T 212-764-7100
(Grand Central)
420 Lexington Avenue
New York, NY 10170
T 212-297-0500
(Broadway)
1675 Broadway
New York, NY 10019
T 212-399-3100
(Bryant Park)
43 West 42nd St
New York, NY 10036
T 212 221 1500
(Lexington Avenue)
1418 Lexington Ave
New York, NY 10128
T 212 360 7200
(Madison Avenue)
501 Madison Ave
New York, NY 10022
T 212 750 0515
(The Village)
37 East 8th St
New York, NY 10003
T 212 673 1500
(Third Ave)
880 Third Ave
New York, NY 10022
T 212-355-6500
(Union Square)
124 University Place
New York, NY 10003
T 212 206 8011
(Upper East Side)
1379 Third Ave
New York, NY 10075
T 212 794 9800
(Upper West Side)
350 Amsterdam Ave
New York, NY 10024
(Wall Street)
87 Beaver St
New York, NY 10005
T 212 480 7500
(East Hampton, Long Island)
35 Newtown Ln
East Hampton, NY 11937
T 631 329 4883
(Huntington, Long Island)
11 Wall St
Huntington, NY 11743
T 631 421 4500
(Woodbury, Long Island)
8285 Jericho Turnpike
Woodbury, NY 11797
T 516-224-4542
T 212 712 9800

Disney on Ice Preview at Bryant Park!

If you are a fan of Disney, ice skating, or just need something fun to do then head to Bryant Park next Wednesday, January 12th.

Channel your inner Disney princess from 1PM to 5PM for a special preview performance of Disney on Ice’s Princess Wishes. All your favorites will be there including Belle, Aurora, Jasmine, Ariel, Mulan, Cinderella, and Snow White.

And if you’re lucky, you can get a chance to win tickets to the full event at Madison Square Garden!

Disney on Ice: Princess Wishes
January 21 – 23
Madison Square Garden
4 Pennsylvania Plaza
New York, NY 10001

Navigating the subway in frills

Whenever I’m in Lolita and walking around Manhattan, it’s like a different world even though I’ve lived here for a few years already. It must be the headbow blocking the blood circulation to the brain. When I’m in Lolita I seem to get lost more often and I need a certain technique just to get through the turnstile.

The New York City subway is one of the most complex subway systems in the world. Even New Yorkers get lost . However if you follow some simple rules and understand how to get un-lost, you can be well on your way to wherever you’re going.


Deciphering the map.

If you think of New York City as a grid, then you can also decipher where you’re going. If the numbers are going up you are going uptown, and if they are decreasing then you’re going downtown. (Remember signs that say Streets are shorter than Avenues)

How can this be applied to the subway? A lot of the times subway signs list what the last stop is. If the signs point to Brooklyn the train is heading downtown, and if it’s the Bronx it’s heading uptown. And if you’re going to Queens you are heading east and out of Manhattan.

Local and Express.

Express trains will stop only at main intersections. (i.e. N express will stop at Union Sq and Herald Sq, but skips 23rd and 28th St. ) while local trains tend to stop at every stop. If you are new to New York, take the local train. It takes longer to get to your destination, but you’ll make sure you’ll get to your destination instead of realizing the train just past your stop.

What if you take the wrong train or miss your stop? Go on the opposite train. Strangely, people often don’t realize if you just go across the platform you the trains are heading in the opposite directions.

Tackling the turnstile.

The turnstile is tiny and your poof is not. Make sure you try to minimize the amount of petticoats you’re going to wear or wear ones made of chiffon or just plain poly cotton. With less volume you will have less to worry about making a scene when you become stuck because of your poof.

Another thing is to pull out your Metrocard out way before you get to the turnstile. You should be searching for it in your bag as soon as you get into the station but before you reach the turnstile. Make it easier on the person behind you — instead of standing in the middle of subway entrance knowing your Metrocard is somewhere between your keys and makeup case.

Avoid rush hour.

Lolita and rush hour do not mix. Unless you are working at Tokyo Rebel or work at job where you and your office are comfortable with it, I really don’t recommend wearing Lolita to work. And rush hour is the worse when you are trying to cram into a sliver of a space just so you can catch a train to get to work on time.

Imagine that but wearing Lolita.

So avoid the hours between 8-10AM and 3-5PM (if you can).

Stand, don’t sit.

While sitting in an empty car with rows of seats is an ideal train car ride, it’s not always the case. If you’re with a group feel free to claim an empty corner. Lolitas who are together as a group will tend to have your back if you’re getting harassed.

And if you are not going very far, stand instead of finding an empty seat. Since Lolita clothing tends to have a lot of volume, you might not be able to tuck all that skirt under your seat. People will sit wherever they like even if it’s on top of your skirt. Also it’s more charitable to give up your seat for someone who needs it more.

Keep occupied.

If you are on your way to a meet-up by yourself, zone out on your iPod, DS, or book and into your own little world. As long as you feel comfortable in Lolita, people will go about their business and the world will not stop just because you are dressed up in frills. This is really important as people will sense if you know you are dressed out of the ordinary.

However don’t zone out too much because you may miss your stop!

New Yorkers are nice people.

Since Lolita meet-ups are usually on the weekends, the trains are usually all local. Still, read the signs, look for a subway map. Or even ask a person who looks like they know where they’re going. New Yorkers have a history of being mean, but if you ask politely how to get somewhere they’ll be more than willing to help. Unless you’re in Times Square and ask where Broadway is (Hint: Times Square is 42nd St and Broadway, but now it’s a giant pedestrian area so hard to miss).

A few things you should do before you head out the door:

-Check mta.info. This MTA’s website and will also tell you if trains are going certain stops or not running.
-If you have an iPod or iPhone, lookup the address and save the map before you leave the house.
-Make sure your Metrocard is charged and you have it out before you try to go through a turnstile. Or at least step aside.
-Check egl or wherever the meet-up was posted. You never know if there has been last-minute location changes or cancellations.

And most importantly…

Look out for other Lolitas. If you spot a headbow, head in that direction. She’s probably is going the same direction you are. And if she’s not sure where to go, you can get lost together.

Conclusion

This advice applies to anyone traveling the subway, but I hope I’ve covered enough bases so that next time you travel the subway it won’t be frustrating or discomforting. It’s really important no matter where you are to have a good sense of direction and navigation. And with less fuss navigating, all you’ll have to worry about is adjusting your dress or hair in the window so you’re picture perfect when you meet your friends.

Are there any other tips you may want other Lolitas to know when traveling on the subway?

Crumbs Cupcake of the Month – White Hot Chocolate

New York had a belated white Christmas. And as quickly as it snowed, it was soon quickly gone.  Never fear though because Crumbs has it’s own tiny, delicious version of a white Christmas.

Crumbs’ Cupcake of the Month for January is White Hot Chocolate. A vanilla cupcake filled with white chocolate mousse, with Crumb’s signature vanilla cream cheese frosting rimmed with white chocolate chips.

Check out more great deals on Crumbs’ Twitter for more news and deals.

Locations:

(Brooklyn Heights)
109 Montague Street
Brooklyn Heights, NY 11201
T 718-935-9600
(Garment Center)
1385 Broadway
New York, NY 10018
T 212-764-7100
(Grand Central)
420 Lexington Avenue
New York, NY 10170
T 212-297-0500
(Broadway)
1675 Broadway
New York, NY 10019
T 212-399-3100
(Bryant Park)
43 West 42nd St
New York, NY 10036
T 212 221 1500
(Lexington Avenue)
1418 Lexington Ave
New York, NY 10128
T 212 360 7200
(Madison Avenue)
501 Madison Ave
New York, NY 10022
T 212 750 0515
(The Village)
37 East 8th St
New York, NY 10003
T 212 673 1500
(Third Ave)
880 Third Ave
New York, NY 10022
T 212-355-6500
(Union Square)
124 University Place
New York, NY 10003
T 212 206 8011
(Upper East Side)
1379 Third Ave
New York, NY 10075
T 212 794 9800
(Upper West Side)
350 Amsterdam Ave
New York, NY 10024
(Wall Street)
87 Beaver St
New York, NY 10005
T 212 480 7500
(East Hampton, Long Island)
35 Newtown Ln
East Hampton, NY 11937
T 631 329 4883
(Huntington, Long Island)
11 Wall St
Huntington, NY 11743
T 631 421 4500
(Woodbury, Long Island)
8285 Jericho Turnpike
Woodbury, NY 11797
T 516-224-4542
T 212 712 9800